Q: My boyfriend and I just broke up, and it’s really crushed me. One reason is because when we started dating we were both convinced God had brought us together, but I guess it wasn’t true. Where did I go wrong? Where was God in all this? — R.H.
A: You erred when you believed that your god exists and that it had brought you and your boyfriend together. Any relationship based on a belief in a non-existent deity could be unstable. Romantic relationships should be based on trust, common interests, physical attraction, and shared expectations and goals. I would recommend that in the future you rely on these as a basis for a healthy relationship and not any belief in a fictitious god. I would also add that many aspects of your life could improve by rejecting belief in your god and embracing ration and freethought.
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